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writes:hi first off , i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17. when i was 12 we started going out we loved each other very much. we had an argument and broke up we were together for 5 and a half months.we then got back together 2 months ago things have been going great accept hes now 17 and im 13 so its a little different. people always tease us and say how im a slag and he's a pervert. that really upsets both of us. were both virgins so we both can talk to each other about things like losing our virginity and stuff.lately he's always playing his game and when i ring him he's always busy but i just put up with it cause i love him.Is there any way of me trying to tell him that i feel like he pay more attention to the game then me.How can i tell him that i'm fed of him always playing his play station or xbox ?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I agree with Kay Kay. Give him a time limit and tell him to stick to it, like an hour playing games with you and an hour by himself. Then get a game that you can both have fun with. I highly recommend Rock Band for XBox - even more addictive than this column (maybe). ;-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): Ok hes a guy so hes gonna want to play video games. But that doesnt mean he loves you any less. Talk to him about it, tell him you want more time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): um maybe you should suggest soemthing like you could both play games together ask do some stuff that you want to do
with him and he does some stuff with you simple right?
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reader, MissKin +, writes (9 April 2008):
 I think you should just tell him that you feel like sometimes he loves his games more than you. Just mention it. You can talk about virginity and losing it and stuff with each other, this shouldn't even be a challenege. Simply explain to him that you feel sad sometimes when he pays more attention to his games than to you. To be honest i think it's just a teenage boy thing as well.
It doesn't mean he likes his games more than he loves you or that he's even doing it intentionally. Me and my boyfriend are both 18 and he's always on his games. I'll go round his house all ready to be romantic and 'together' to chill out and he'll be like 'is it okay if i play my game?' i let him lol. Just because i quite enjoy watching him lose on the really hard games. But this is a personal thing. If you feel like ur second place to his games just tell him, but dont expect hiim or even ask him to give them up for you completely cos this will make you seem too controlling.
Really, just talk to him about it. I'm sure he'll not even have realised how you're feeling and want to make you feel at ease.
Don't worry about people rediculing your age difference either. As long as he respects you and you're happy together, then it's a healthy and perfectly fine relationship.
Take care.
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