A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I broke up with my 'boyfriend' six months ago. Lots of lying and cheating on his part, all through our nearly three years together. Finally told him I did not want to stay his friend or keep in touch last weekend. Seems stupid because I haven't been able to let go. He naturally went on with his partying and meeting new girls. I know now he couldn't have cared for me at all, let alone love me, for doing the things he did. But right now I am just annoyed with myself for something so inconsequential. The thing is he finally joined Facebook earlier this month and has been 'friending' everyone- except me. Its ridiculous that THIS is bringing me down. I just want to stop caring and stop hurting over this man. Six months is really too long. Help, anyone?
View related questions:
broke up, cheated on me, facebook Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, yoginipirate  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 You're channeling boredom or neediness or whatever into this guy. Move on, find some new friends. Date others. Every second you waste on that loser is one that you're diverted from finding someone better to be friends with, date, love- whatever. 3 years is long enough to waste...buck up and no more obsessing...it's not attractive. Plus, dating someone WAY better is the best revenge- but that should only be a side perk, not the point. You can do it.
|
