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writes:sorry bout the length of this but i think u need to know the full story.ok. so i have known this girl my whole life. so we have know each other our whole lives, went to the same school for 4 years till i left. but she is still in the same school.after i left her life there became a mini hell(according to what she has told me) cause my dad is a teacher there and is trying to make her disciplined and stuff cause she got into trouble for dating a guy in a higher class. so my dad told her dad and her dad has really isolated her. he wont let her go out, let guy call her(not even me tho he wont say it to my face),etc.so while all this has been going on i have secretly liked her for about 2 yrs. now i havent seen her in about 3-4 months and some friends have convinced me to tell her how i feel(friends i reallllllllyyyyy trust btw). i am just waiting for her exams to get over to try but i am at a loss of how to tell her? i th8 i mite call her everyday just to catch up(at a time her dad is not there mind u. id kill myself if i get her into any trouble) and then try to meet her? i culd try to get my dad to invite them over(her family that is) but then id have to do everything myself while they are here(which is ALOT) cause he has actually tried to make me hate her(which culd never happen).so what do i do???? i am open to any suggestions. dont tell me to talk to my dad about his problem with her cause he hardly listens to me bout this and my mom cant do much as she is abroad. and also any tips of how to tell her also would help. thx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for all the advice. i am gonna call her in a few hours seeing as today is her last exam. her mom and i are on good terms so i think i will be able to talk to her. i have been polite to her family all this while so i hope they will accept me soon.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Yep I think you are on the right path, Tell her it needs to be done, I think you come from a very strict background so these things are even harder to do.
May I suggest keeping the family out of it for awhile? Try and meet her by herself and see how she is, sounds like she is going through alot, you may just have to be happy being her friend for now
Good luck
Wisdom
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