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writes:my ex boyfriend has been telling people we had sex. its not true. what should i do?[Moderator's note. Respondents may treat your situation as common defamation until you can provide us with complementary details. Feel free to write en détail please.] Reply to this Question
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Oooh this happend to me at school too!!
Spanna, I did exactly what you said and it worked! The poor sod ended up leaving the school because so many people gave him crap about it!
the other one I heard from my cousin was this " really? I must have been passed out.....if thats the case isnt it date rape"? You would be suprised at how fast he will change his tune after that! Or just threaten him with a legal lawsuit for defimition of character! hee hee... I hate people do things like this!!!
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Spanna, lol
PS: Not a big fan of the Mod note...
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (9 April 2008):
 It's quite simple. You ignore it. If you go around telling people that it's not true, it will only arise suspicion. The only thing you can really do is ignore it and wait for it to pass. If you spread a rumour about him, it will be immature and two wrongs don't make a right, after all. But, if you did start a rumour, you could always say something like "Yeah, we had sex. It was so bad! He was seriously small! Like... I'm talking 2 or 3 inches. It was over so quick I didn't even know it had started!"
No guy likes to have a small penis, so make people think that. Won't fail.
Wishing you the best.
xxx
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reader, citris  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 well, you can tell them your side of it. Or you can tell someone you know will get back to him with a rumor that will hurt his pride just as much as he's trying to hurt yours(such as "he's a horrible kisser, I would NEVER have sex with him" or "yeah, how could I have sex with a boy who has a tiny penis like he does?!") These however would not be the preferred thing to do. It would however teach him a lesson and you would only be telling ONE person.
I personally would stick to the fact that I KNOW we didn't do it, if someone wants to believe him, that's their decision and if they have the brains to actually ask me about it, then I'll tell them the truth. I would go about my life and move on. If however this begins to ruin your reputation or cause you to be harrassed by other teens, take action and tell an adult what he is doing and make sure it stops!
Chalk it up to him being a generally stupid and hurtful young boy trying to make himself look "cool" and you should be happy he's no longer your boyfriend!
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