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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Right, i have been with my boyfriend about 8 months now..(let's call him Jo - to keep it secret) through him i have made alot of new friends and some very very good ones at that. A good few months ago one of these very good friends made a drunken pass at me (lets call him paul) as soon as he done it i said no, he apologised for ages afterwards and we decided to forget about it, i told Jo, my b/f and he agreed. However.. this friend Paul.. was texting me recently, i think he was a little drunk, and was saying if me and Jo split up he would like to be my rebound. I've spoken to him and he says he doesn't fancy me and does only see me as a friend, but he also thinks about what it would be lke to be with me sexually and thinks i would make a great girlfriend. (my boyfriend knows all of this and he is ok because he knows he can trust me)What i want advice on is.. even though Paul says he doesn't fancy me.. does he? Or does he just think i'm easy?
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reader, vsnod +, writes (11 April 2008):
I think he does like you, but he may just want to have sex with you. Either way you and your boyfriend should put a stop to his behavior, it's rude to you and your boyfriend.
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