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30-35,
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writes:I'm a bit confused because it seems like every guy I have a little crush on I seem to want to marry. I know that I'm still young, and i dunno why I want to marry them, because I don't even know the boys very well! Is it just an immature crush thing? Why do I wanna marry them when I hardly even know them?
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (10 April 2008):
Im going to start by asking what is your parents relationship like? Are they married? Divorced? Or perhaps never married at all? if they are still married, do you think perhaps you see their relationship and idolise it?
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reader, yoginipirate  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 Because everything in your body & mind is designed to want to bond up with a mate & make more humans. I'm serious. It is hard wired into you to "play house" when you really are far too young to do so. You have LOTS of time & NEED the experience to find a mate that is right for you. Give yourself the freedom to daydream, just DON'T DO ANYTHING stupid. That means, just keep it to yourself maybe by starting a journal, don't marry some loser in a state that allows it. Just go to school, hang with your friends & allow yourself to become an adult. Part of becoming an adult is enjoying your freedom, which isn't a big component of the whole marriage idea, with me? Don't worry, it really is all 100% natural to think about it. Also, deep down you may want to create a "perfect" family to correct the flaws in your own (btw all families are "flawed" & you can't fix it by making a new one). Hope that helps.
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