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female
age
30-35,
*hitney-x
writes:Ok .. I have a problem. Earlier this year (January-March)I was dating this guy called Lee. But we broke up beacause his Ex girlfriend was trying to turn us against eachother, and thought it would be better to just remain friends because it's our GCSE year and we couldunt deal with it. Anyway..Recently Lee started dating this girl, wich I'm totally fine about. But on the weekend we bumped into eachother in the mall and just started talking casually, but then out of nowhere we just started making out.I felt guilty about this and I said that it shouldunt happen again, because he has a girlfriend and it's not fair on her, he agreed.But then after class today it happend again (He didn't force me or anything). But my question is .. I Know it's wrong, because it's basiclly cheating, so how can i resist the temtation of making out with him, cause it just kind of happens out of nowhere? . I feel really guilty So any advice is appreciated. Thanks
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 It's nice that you have a conscience about your behavior and actions affect other people's feelings. Lee seems to have a few boundary issues, considering the fact that this happened when You were his girlfriend as well with his Previous girlfriend. Coincidence? Or does Lee just not care about other peoples feelings the way that you do?
I hate to tell you, he is kind of acting like a bit of a player, and if your school is your social environment, he could cause problems for you. He already has one jealous ex-girlfriend, and it sounds like he is busy creating another one (the one he is now dating). You sound like a thoughtful young woman, I respectfully suggest that you could probably do better for yourself than hanging around with this guy. Do you really want to have a boyfriend who makes out behind your back? Because that's what he is doing with you right now, he's showing you, by cheating on his girlfriend, who he is and what he does. I'd believe him! Actions speak a lot louder than words.
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