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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Okay basically there is this girl I like, she has/had a b/f and she knows I like her. We got into an argument that is non-relationship related and we stopped talking. Well I messaged her on facebook telling her there is no need for a feud and she agreed but said stuff like "I think we should keep talking" and "you seem like a really intelligent guy" and "I care =)". Then one day she smiled and waved to me. Thing is, she doesn't talk to me and I can't confront her about it in person.What is your opinion about messaging her on facebook saying something like"hi, before you said "I think we should keep talking" but we don't talk. Why is that?!"I made a question before which relates to thishttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-wants-to-get-to-know-me-so.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Go for it! If you aren't able to confront her in person, go ahead and ask her! Another option would be to call, text, or email her and see what's up. Maybe she's trying not to give you the wrong message about her feelings for you. I believe she just wants you as a friend, and she's trying to make that clear in her own way. But, this is just pure speculation, here. The only way to know for sure is just by asking her.
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reader, she makes me feel +, writes (10 April 2008):
i can't say any arrangement with a nice guy and a girl that has a boyfriend has ever turned out good with me or any of my fellow male friends. that is my observation that might help you. just be nice, and let her go, be really nice and wait it out, one day later on while you're busy with something else, she might come around and miss you.
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