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writes:I have had several chats just recently with my boyfriend about how I feel like he isn't that bothered about me, and just likes being in a relationship with anyone rather specifically me. He says he loves me, and got very emotional when I was brought this up and he would be devastated if i broke up with him. So, i suggested this week we should meet up tomorrow (as i didn't get to see him at the weekend) and have a romantic night in. So he's just said I can cook and can we watch a couple of hours tv after the meal...I don't know what else I can do or say to him to encourage him to take more interest in me. Obviously he is that attracted to me he would rather watch tv than have sex with me. Any ideas, or is it a lost cause?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Sounds like my boyfriend too, he would rather watch t.v until his ready to doze off, than turn off the t.v and turn me on. If you get a good answer to this one it would be one I would like to see.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 Hi,
there is not a lot of information to go on here. Is he conservative in his ideas and he expects you to cook,clean and fuss over him?
Or is he just lazy, wants to stay in and watch the telly and generally lie around doing bugger all.
Or is this a case of you wanting more in your life? An acive social life, friends, dinner parties , fun !!! and he is quite content to spend the time lazing about.
On the surface it sounds like he is ready to live a life of sitting in front of the telly, where you want to live a little have some fun and exploring things. Sounds like you both have different priorities.
It is possible to split up with someone even though deep down you love them and no one has cheated or done anything particularly bad, its just you arent suited to each other. Is this you??
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reader, davie +, writes (16 October 2007):
You need to find out why he doesn't want sex, which could be easier said than done.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Normally a night of dinner and movies in will end up in sex. It doesn't sound like he isn't wanting sex with you. Was just making plans for the night.
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