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writes:my boyfriend and i broke up. He doesnt really know how he is feeling except he misses me a lot. Also he is soo stressed with school and just where he is in his life. So thing is, is that I want to get him back sometime in the future-more so near future. How can I do that? I have not talked to him since we broke up last week. I know that we should have a future, and I know I dont want and other "fish in the sea". So please what can I do to start the process of a hopeful reunion with my boyfriend. I know im sounding desperate and silly but i just want some help please. What can/should do? Thanks much!
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reader, needs2know +, writes (15 October 2007):
needs2know is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hey guys thanks.. I want to call him but I dont want him to feel pressured you know.. I want him to miss like he does and he has told me he does. He is the one who broke up with me. And when it happened we were able to just let everything out on the table. And feel like now we know and can change it.. But geez it just hurs so much and I dont want to do anything to push him a way more. In january we will be both transfering to the same college, and he made sure that I got up there. Like that was very important to him even when we were having problems.. Are these signs?? and for the fact that I feel like this way that there should be a future with us (and I never did with anyone else that ive had a serious relationship with) does that mean anything? Maybe I should give him more time?? I dont know, I appriciate everyones help and would be more appriciative for more. Thanks!!!!
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (15 October 2007):
 I say that you should call him, tell him how your feeling that you made a mistake and you miss him.
arrange a time to meet up and talk about whats gone on etc and take it from there if you both love each other it will work out ok in the end!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): hi this happened to me as well i dont know what to do my self you help me and i will help u what is your boyfriends name
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 October 2007):
Call him up and tell him it was a mistake and you miss him bunches. Tell him to come ove because you want to kiss him for an hour.
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