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Sometimes he likes me other times he's distant. What do I do?

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Question - (15 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay I am 16. I known this guy since year 10 and we have gotten really close this past year.

We both have really bad homelifes, we both planned to move away and he moved to Cardiff (which with me being in manchester is really far away)

I went down there and spent the weekend with him

I'm in love with him.

We had on clothes sex (I was on my period and we decided that we wouldn't enjoy vaginal sex) and I gave him Oral.

Now people say to me 'its the way he looks at you'

thing he had said to others and me makes me know he feels the same.

but its different when hes with me in front of others...

Is he ashamed of me?

Also when i was there he said

"You know this is just a bit of fun don't you."

But then why do I have this feeling he feels the same..

hes told me he loves me before on the phone but when it comes to admitting it to my face its like he can't do it.

Is there something wrong with him...or me.

Does anyone know of a way I can go round this?..like ideas for the next time i go into Cardiff?

please reply and soon

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (16 October 2007):

Tell him you will not date him until he learns to respect you properly in public. Make you next date public with no sex.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi

do not hate me for saying this, but it sounds like he is using you, he is telling you the things you want to hear so that you will go to Cardiff to satisfy his lust, and not showing you the love and care you deserve, next time he calls you ask him to visit you in Manchester, to see what his reaction is, to me this seems like a one way relationship, and you need more than he is really willing to give you, your to young to be throwing your life away on a relationship which seems to be going no ware.

hope this helps

good luck

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