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I havent seen or heard from him in a month. Is he cheating on me? Did he break up with me?

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Question - (15 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, *ctsky87 writes:

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years on and off. He was really my rebound back in the fall of 2004. The is an 2 1/2 age diff between us. Okay he was sent away for 2 years for cutting school and causing trouble, so we had a long distance relationship. We would talk on the phone evey day, the he was moved to a more restrictive environment and he coulden't call me anymore. When i did get him on the phone he had an attitude with me i guess he was going through alot at that time. So fast forward to May of 2006 I called him one day and told him i was cheating with my ex. he was very upset and heart broken so we didn't talk for a whole year.

Now this is 2007 and back in late August I got a knock at the door, it was a rainy day and it was him.

I was so happy he asked me back out and i said yes

Things started to get sour two weeks later, and this is still a long distance relationship. I lied and told him that i had another man on the side when we were not together and he cried, I also started to treat him bad.

To make a long story short one day he was supposed to stop by, but he lied about it and later on that day i got a call from his cell phone and it was a girl, but i hung up. He said it was his sister! We had a big fight and i said very bad and hurtful things to him and i have not seen or heard from him in a month.

so is he cheating.

did he break up with me?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (18 October 2007):

rcn agony auntAnd you care why? You are both a real piece of work. You both need to come with warning labels for anyone who chooses to have anything to do with you. Talk about dramatic backstabbing. You both need help. I really don't understand why you want this question answered, is it because you may be upset if he's cheating or do you want to figure out if it's your turn or his turn to cheat.

You've sure cheated on him enough, so who really cares.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (15 October 2007):

You two are a piece of work. Lying to each other and treating each other like crap. Sit back and think about what kind of life you lead. Maybe you should turn over a new leaf and move on to different associates.

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