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writes:I am married and seeing/talking to a married man for a month. No sex. We talk everyday and have met 4 times. All of a sudden he tells me that he can't see me as a fb because he doesn't want to ruin the great friendship that we have and that he is starting to feel very guilty about thinking about me while he is with his kids. First of all he pursued me, then he tells me over and over again how much he wants to be with me. I am so confused. Things seemed to change when I showed him he was listed as "FB" on my phone. He disliked the term fb immediately. Is this bs or real guilt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): If he wants things to be like that then back off. What is wrong with your marriage, why are you pursuing someone else? Ask yourself what you want out of life and put your own house in order.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 October 2007):
Take his reaction as real. He wants to be a friend not a FB.
ps How many FBs did you have on your phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): lauren, you may have misinterpreted his "persuit". He may have truly been seeking a "friend" he could talk with, not a fb. Wires can get crossed in net conversations. People can read into others posts what they want to hear. Back off from this. He is obviously embarrassed. He is probably wondering how he let this happen.
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