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writes:What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to hear from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend becasuse she is going camping with her boyfriend.Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would u tell me that?? Is she nuts? i didnt contact her, i text her 2 weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"i dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't! Additional Details55 minutes agoShe is the one who dumped me...if that matters. I dont think she is trying to make me jealous though because then she would be calling all the time right???The only thing I did was ask HER SISTER how the cat was and if i could see it. Her sister offered the cat to me...then my ex- girfriend ran into my friend and she said "oh have him call me" I didn't and SHE was the one to ask for my number. I eventually text her and she called me and we had the above conversation. Other than that I have not contacted her once.Oh and after she asked "do you need something..i texted back "just saying hi".. she didnt answer back and havent talked since that was 2 weeks ago.I'm 25 now and she is 22. We met when she was 17. We both lost our virginity to one another
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): Don't call her again. Some women like to play games.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 hi
i am not the best judge of woman to be honest, but it seems to me that she is trying to make a fool out of you, she firstly want to see you ,then she has a bloke she works with, then she going camping at the week end with her boy friend, for some reason she is out to cause you pain and distress, which it seems is working, i now it is hard for you at this time, especially as you lost your virginity together,which usually creates a bond between two people, you seem to continue with this notion but she does not,i think the best thing for you to do is change your phone number, and leave her to get on with her own life, you need peace of mind but if this situation should continue it will have a destructive affect on your life and future relationships,i believe that you will be better off without her, she is dragging you down to a dark place,do not let her do this to you, stay at home, ignore her,start a new life of your own, in time to come you will be thankful that you did and the world will be a better place for you.
i hope this will help you
good luck
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