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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently found a number in my boyfriends phone which turned out to be a womans number. Instead of confronting him i began pretending to be him and she was replying to the messages with kisses and agreeing to meet up, she even said she knew about me.I confronted him and he denied knowing who she was or how the number got there so as its not the first time he has been caught out giving girls his number i threw him out.I have just received a copy of his phone bill showing all calls and texts sent from his phone and there is only two texts ever sent to that number 2 weeks apart.I confronted him again about this woman and he finally admitted it was a married woman whom he had gone to give a quote to for work on her house. He said that she bombarded him with texts asking to meet up and saying she wanted him, he said that he made it clear he wasnt interested but she continued.After hearing this and looking at the texts i received when i was pretending to be him it didnt quite ring true, she wrote texts like a young girl and sounded no more than in her early twenties when i rang the number.I asked him if this is true to tell me who she is so i could confront her myself as she had just split up my family with her constant chasing of him and he said there was no way he was telling me who she was as it would just cause more trouble.This has made me more suspicious because if hes got nothing to hide why not tell me who she is so i can confront this homewrecker. I have got a feeling she is somebody he has given his number out to again whilst out and arranged to meet but had second thoughts.I really dont know what to do, he has cheated early on in the relationship and i thought now that we had a family things would be different, i know that he only ever texted her twice but its the fact that it took him over a month to come clean leaving me believing he was guilty and his story just doesnt match the way she spoke in the texts she knew too much for someone he told to leave him alone.Should i leave it now and carry on with my life or try to make thigs work? im worried the niggles in the back of my mind will prevent me from being happy again. I feel i wont rest until i know who this woman is and have it out with her.
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 answer i love this guy for six years he cheated once forgave him for it second time he did again last time he ever did i told him his bed was no longer his bed live the hurt and found a new one the choice is yours but there a saying someone who cheats never take back good luck
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
You caught him, you do not need to meet her. The next choice is yours.
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