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36-40,
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writes:My fiance and me have been together 3 years but things have got a bit rocky lately. He has had alot wrong in his head. Anyway Friday he rung me up and was normal then he rung and said that he wasn't finishing with me and that he still loved me but he needed to get away for a couple of weeks. He came home and we talked and he said he loved me and didn't want us to split up and before we could sort our relationship out he had to sort his head. He was only goona take a few things but we live with my mum and when i told her she said get him out so he decided to take everything. He told me he wouldn't take his phone and he would get in touch with me when he was ready. He stayed the night and we spent all night kissing and cuddling and he told me he loves me all the time and it was better then ever. Next morning i got up early he told me he was still going and that he would still be here when i got back but he wasnt and he had took all his stuff but left somethings and left his phone here. He hasn't been in touch and its been 2 days now and i dont understand if he is coming back or not or even if he doesnt come back if he wants to give it another go what advice would you give
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
Give him another week or two before you become concerned.
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reader, Greg_Simpson  +, writes (15 October 2007):
best i can figure, is that you need to just live your life. Hard as that may be, it seems to be the only way to get through this with your sanity intact. If he needs to figure out his own head, then he needs the space to do so. Be there to support him if he asks so that he'll still know you care. But don't be a doormat as well. Enjoy those things that you do when your alone or with friends and things will work out as they should.
Hope this helps
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