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writes:HeyI wrote one of these a few weeks back and things have definately improved. I even managed to go out on the town this past weekend, which hasnt been easy since I have a young child and when im not at work I have my daughter. Anyways, when I don't talk to my ex I have been feeling great, but as soon as we speak (and we have to since we have a child together and still see each other on almost a daily basis) that big lump in my chest comes back with a vengeance. How do I tackle this?? Most of me doesn't even want her back, a small piece does. Bottom line is it's not happening. I just want to get over this and move on.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 It's a normal feeling, when you feel as if you were wronged in some way by the other person. All thought it feels as vengeance, it's the pain of loss that causes it. What you have to do to work through this is realize it's OK that you're not together. You are making a choice not to be with her, just as the pain you might have from her were choices she made that may have led up to it.
I hope everything works out for you. Also as the newness of the break up fades that feeling will as well.
Richard
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reader, Charley x  +, writes (15 October 2007):
 Well if you have a lump in your chest go to you gp or does this happen when you see your ex? If this carries on defiently get medical help.
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