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I've met a great guy, but after many bad experiences, I worry about getting hurt again. Any advice?

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Question - (15 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *babydoll)88 writes:

there's this guy i met not so long ago and i feel so strongly about him, he's made it quite clear he likes me alot too but i spent thursday till sunday night with him n loved being with him sooo much.

the thing is where i have been let down so many imes by people i care about and love i.e my mum and real dad,ex boyfriends im so scared of getting hurt and him realiseing he doesnt like me.

i feel like putting an end to it straight away so i dont get hurt....what should i do??

please help!

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (15 October 2007):

Finding true love means trusting and risking your heart. Just go slow and keep your eyes open and remember no one is perfect.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (15 October 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntIf you end it before you have even begun its going to hurt even more because you will always think "what if" ive been hurt more times then i care to remeber but i dont let that scare me off people, you deserve to be happy and if you feel good with him then take a chance be bold be brave you cant live your life in fear live for the moment live for today, dont push people away because your afraid it will just make you miserable,just see how it goes if he is a great guy then dont lose him, yeah you might get hurt thats what you get from relationship but then you heal and move on till you find the perfect guy who wont hurt you

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