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36-40,
*ikiem
writes:i have a son that is 5 when he was 2 me and his father split up he took me to court on seeing him he was granted every other weekend for 4 hrs it started off great than it dropped to him bringing him back in an hr time when my son would get back he would call me sum words that he has never heard before cursing me i asked his father about than it stooped all together him coming to see him he comes maybe twice a yr i don't get child support or anything well i have to go to court in nov over child support well he got mad and he has been having his wife send me sum bad emails running her mouth and i told him to stop coming and seeing him all together if they are not going to stop all this middle school drama but i want my son to know his father and i don't want him to think i kept him from his father what should i do
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reader, nikiem +, writes (20 October 2007):
nikiem is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am not keeping my son from him he is doing that himself by not coming to see him i call him all the time to see if he wants to but he never answers or when he does he says he is too busy
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 October 2007):
Don't keep the biological father from seeing his son. Talk to your lawyer if you think your son may be unsafe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Just because he is his biological dad does not make him a father. If you child wants to get in touch with him when he is older then that is fine, but for now you dont have to put up with this. If he is learning your son to be disrespectful then limit his visits. I had the same with my ex and our son when the child was 9. I made it quite awkward for the two to meet, so visits were limited. Now than he is 15 he gets in touch with him by mobile phone and they talk that way. Dont let him grind you down. Bring your son up to be a lovely and loving child and ignore all that is going on.
take care
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