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*oidonyou06
writes:My gf and I have been together for 3 and a half years.....we have lived together before and we even have a dog together. Right now we are both trying to finish up school...and are really busy with it. But something happened with me and her and I need advice....first off we are becoming distant and sex is not even an option anymore....I feel like she is not into me anymore.....she just became good friends with this guy who is her neighbour...but he lives out of town.....he was in town for one weekend, and she called in sick to work and ignored my phone calls for the entire day....I was worried about why she didn't go to work so i called a couple of her friends and her sister to make sure she was okay...my gf finally called me the next morning and called me crazy for calling her friends...but I was just worried about her (cause at the time I didn't know that that guy was in town) the next day a sunday.....she ignored me the whole day and night again...come to find out she was with that guy getting drunk all day and night...cause one of my friends ended up seeing her at the bar with that guy...I'm just curious why I was not allowed to know that guy was in town or even talk to my own girlfriend....is she hiding something? Should I have reason to think that she is cheating on me? I'm dying here and I need help...she told me she was with her brother when her brother hadn't seen her for a couple days...what does this mean? Please any advice would help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): Man forget it, she is finished. Stop losing at any time count it as a profit, don't even bother to ask any body what should you do about it. STOP SEEING HER.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 I'm afraid she is not making it too subtle that she thinks the relationship is over. If all what you say is true this is appalling behaviour , your only option is to end the relationship and try and find someone who wants to spend time with you , your current girlfriend prefers to spend her time with another man - if this is not a hint I dont know what is.
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (15 October 2007):
 answer she should not be in a bar with this guy second getting mad because you call her friends and she should have invited you to join them maybe she has not cheating yet but there a good chance that maybe she has it on her mind did you think of doing the same thing and see how she acts of course if she does not care its because she does not love you anymore but you did not lose anything i know it hard but when you stop hurting you look back and not care there a song called unanswed prays listen to it i believe is randy travis that sings it and listen to the words and maybe you understand sometimes god does a favorite only we see it later good luck
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (15 October 2007):
She's just trying to figure out how to best dump you. Emotionally she has already left you.
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