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writes: I need help. I broke up with my emotionally abusive fiance a week ago. He kept trying to contact me but I just ignored him. Now, he has stopped and I feel depressed. When he was contacting me I guess in a weird way it felt good that he was so miserable without me. But now I don't know what he's up to. I don't ever want to be with him again, but how do I get over this horrible hopeless feeling?
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
Think about and do other things. Find a new bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): You cant miss the person but having someone around. It happens all the time. Even when we know something is really bad we cling onto it because they have been our comfort blanket in a weird sort of way. Letting go of them is another matter. you need to be strong right now and move on, to better days ahead. you will have times when you feel lonely, glum and sad but that wont last. Get on your party clothes and get out there with your mates. Invite a friend or two over to stay the night, have to some food and drinks and a good old girly night in and natter. Remember, life is only as bad as we make it!!
Take care
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (15 October 2007):
 I think his miserableness probably made you feel wanted in a way and now that's gone that's what is missing. I think the best thing you can do is focus on yourself. Try and keep yourself active and occupied and dont give your mind time to dwell on this; obviously you cared for this man but it sounds like from what you are saying that he may need professional help of his own. Keep yourself occupied and fill the void with things that you find make you happy and maybe a little more fufilled. Hope that helps. Good luck :).
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): ive been through the same thing. i had three years of terrible abuse she treated me like a dog, you couldnt comprehend the torment i suffered,when she finnaly ditched me i was lost i missed her so much she was my life, i dont have to tell you what its like your feeling it now. i checked out hundreds of sites over the last twelve and a half months for answers, and i kept getting the same ones over and over again, its not the person you miss its the company, you feel lonley and rejected.........your better than that, get your self out and mix....oh and smile its your best feature, and it makes you feel good,it may feel like the end of the world but it does get better...good luck
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