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writes:My bf just sent me a text asking if i was still talking to him as he blew me off on the phone about an hour before to play drinking games with his flat mates and last week i told him how i felt about this( it hurts me n makes me feel unwanted, all i want is 10 mins of his time to talk as we haven't seen each other in ages) i txted bk saying don't worry about it n then an hour later he texted saying ok going out now talk to you 2morow. what does this tell you? do you think he's off me? I've tried talking to him about this an he changes for like a day then goes bk to normal. he just shows no enthusiasm or appreciation anymore. am i just there for him to fall back on?By the way we have been together for 3 years but only been long distance for a month so quite new at this. we used to be really close, our friends said we were practically married but hes changed since going to uni.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 He's at university playing drinking games hanging out with friends etc ...basically he's having a ball.
You are at home texting him and worrying and getting annoyed. This is not a good situation for a healthy relationship. I'm sorry but you both have different priorities in life, you owe it to yourself to let this one go. You cannot expect him to be there for you all the time as at your age you guys should be meeting as many new people and experiencing new things as you can.
Find someone who has the same priorities as you and maybe this one will devote the time to your relationship.
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reader, justiny91  +, writes (16 October 2007):
it seems to me like he dosnt like long distance, very much if i was you i would prolly tell him that you guys should take a break, and maybe you could talk again later. it also may just be new to him and he dosnt know how to deal.
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (15 October 2007):
 well i tell you what i have been with one for six years first three years i was everthing last three nightmare city he does not sleep with me selfish uncaring so my answer is your younge don't waste your time on him even if it hurts you might be missing prince charming mean while good luck
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