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writes:i have been with my bf for one and a half years its really serious and things are going great but most recently i have been thinking about engagements. Is this way too soon to be thinking this serious and this committed??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): yes we have talked about out it, but its only really hit me just recently i have never ever felt like this before and im really scared cause its such a serious thing to be contemplating i have never loved anyone as much as him and want to make it permanent i just hope he doesnt freak out
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reader, sweetnsoursauce  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 I don't think so. I think if you know you definitely want to marry this guy and be with him for the rest of your life, then good for you! But you might want to make sure that's what you want first. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): It really depends on how strongly you feel for each other! Does he feel the same??? Dont ask him directly about getting engaged, you never know he could get scared! You could ask him on his views about marriage or engagements. Or possibly the best way to bring something like that up is by saying 'my old school friend is getting married! She got with him when we got together! Do you think thats soon?' Just to get a feel for how he thinks.
Anyway why dont you just wait for him to ask you? At least then it will be a nice suprise when he does ask!
Good luck chick
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (15 October 2007):
 in today world take you time if things are great and your both happy let him ask you today you can be with someone six years and he can change in one second to someone you don't even know just give it time rember if his love with stay without that ring or paper because love keeps you together not a ring think about it the time will come if it meant to be good luck
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (15 October 2007):
 hi
if things are going well in a relationship, then i can see no reason why you should not think in these terms, but before you make any decisions you must discuss this with your bf, or try to find out if he is willing to take this step, there is no set time for couples to be together before they make this commitment to each other, as long as the relationship is sound
there should not be a problem.
best wishes
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): No, I thought about it the 1st day..Women want a commitment & we wonder if the guy we're dating is the one were going to marry some day. So, it's not too soon to think about it, but I just don't know how you'd go about bringing it up. Has he ever talked about it??
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