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writes: Dear Aunts!Does anyone out there have any experiance with being involved with a narssisist? Particularly if you think a person could be, but they don't know. How, if at all, can you have a sucessful relationship with such a person? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2007): yes i just found out that i married one.I find him cold unloving,selfish,does not meet my emotional needs.He mostly acts like this when things do,nt go his way,he ignores me for weeks at at time fills his days doing what he wants.He never takes blame for his actions it has to my fault.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Sorry but i cannot see how anyone can be happy with someone like this. I have had a lots of friends and relatives who have had bad experience with these people in the past. I would run like hell, nothing good can come of it.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
Like any guy you tell them how great everything they do is. You can't be too heavy in giving out praise. Tell him how smart he was in picking you because you are smart enough to see all his greatness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): There can be no "successful" relationship with this person. Even if you try your best, it will never be good enough for him. The relationship- if continued, will only be one of feeding his "suppply", while you become more and more unhappy and confused. You must be at the point in the relationship where, like almost anyone he casually knows, such as his boss, and maybe the friends he attends social or sporting events with, thinks he is the best thing since sliced bread. However, you have already identified him as NPD. Good for you. Don't walk, run, the other way.
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