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writes:right my dilema is... basically i got to know this guy right and he seemed to proper like me until today i found out that he dont like me 'in that way' and he was just horny.to be honest i think i'm coping well even though i was upset a bit earlier but i knew i had to get myself togetherbut i;m scared i'll start thinking about it and get upsetcan someone tell me how i'd get over ita part of me is doubting that i can find someone who would want more from mehelpxx
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 You are meeting the wrong type of men here.
I am a man and while I'll admit to one night stands in my bachelor past, If I asked a girl out I would never assume that sex was on the menu for the night. I would hope that she wants to get to know me as much as I want to get to know her.
The other writer above is right, if a man keeps gearing the conversation around to sex then you know what his intentions are. You want them to be interested in you, not your body ( that comes later! ).
A lot of men wont see you as unworthy if you sleep with them early in the relationship but I fear you are going out with the type who does, they will sleep with you and then tell their mates what a tramp you are. The double standard is shocking but consider yourself lucky that you dont end up in an actual relationship with one of these neanderthals.
Just keep looking and find out what a man really wants, if he keeps groping you , forget how flattering it is and remember he just wants a shag not a relationship.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (15 October 2007):
 hi
well i am sad to tell you that there maybe more people about like him, but they are a rare breed,it is not nice for some one to use you for sexual purpose, but that life, once in a while we bump in to these people, even i have been taken advantage of in this way, so i know what you are going through, best thing for you to do is get yourself out there, go out with your mates, if you do not have that many join clubs go out and enjoy yourself, do not be to keen to be romantic with the first person that comes along, make several male friend then make sure your together for a while before you commit yourself to sexual encounters, then you will enjoy your life a lot more,
hope this help you
good luck
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (15 October 2007):
 This might not help much but I know what your going through.
You WILL find someone okay. Everyone has someone out there waiting for them.
Don't let this get your confidence down either and keep on coping well.
Just be yourself and take a while to get to know them before having Sex...trust me - it works x
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reader, Charley x +, writes (15 October 2007):
 Heyaa Sweetie. Look dont worry it was just a blip or a fling. Get your self dressed up looking gorgeoues as ever and go out partying with some mates do some flirting and forget he aint worth you tears love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2007): Well when you get to forty things don't change for us girls. Men are always interested in sex and single men try it on with any attractive available single female. It's not an insult to you, it's just they are biologically programmed that way. Now if you date a guy you can usually tell by the first date whether it's sex he's after or a relationship. There are lots of sexual inuendoes in his conversation and occasional reference to his manliness down below, ha ha. So, if you meet a guy and his conversation revolves around the sex topic then for sure that's what he wants from you. Just listen and be aware, if a guy is into you and looking for a committed relationship, more often than not the date will be an interesting one because he will want to know all about you and share personal information about himself... Don't be upset you've got to date many frogs until you find your prince. Just make sure you don't give in to their sexual urges too early...you must respect yourself. Best of luck and happy dating.
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