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writes:I have been with my boyfriend nearly 6 months. we are in love though we have had our ups and downs mainly caused by my insecurity.I have recently moved about an hour away from him, so only see him a couple of times a week, i always drive to see him, but i dont mind because he is very busy with uni work. He says he loves me so much, yet sometimes he doesnt show it. I drove up to see him on Friday morning, hoping to spend friday and saturday ith him. We had quite a good day on friday, but on saturday i asked him if we could go to the zoo and he gave a half-hearted yes. I could feel that he wasnt very entusiastic so said i would leave early afternoon, hoping he ould try and persuade me to stay. Instead he said 'what time are you leaving? My mate is having a steak and beer party to watch the rugby' so i ended up taking him round and i drove home and spent the day alone. I feel like he isnt very keen on spending time with me. what do you think? i would happily spend all my time with him, but he just doesnt seem very enthusiastic:o( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Well you see... a lot of guys are just assholes, but maybe he is just really busy.... so go be busy yourself and see how much he likes it... if you're always catering to his every move he's going to take you for granted!!!
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reader, poppycorn +, writes (15 October 2007):
im in the same situation. My bf has gone to uni n since then i feel hes changed. i used to be his life but now i feel im getting pushed to the background. I talked to him about this and ok he's now making an effort to ring me etc. but i feel its not coz he wants to but because ive made him.
Our anniversary is soon and everytime i mention it he shrugs it off he doesnt get enthusiastic about anything to do with us anymore also its always me who travels up to see him aswell. but he still says he loves me n doesnt want us to break up..
just thought i'd let u no ur not alone
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (15 October 2007):
He does need some free time for himself. He might be the kind of guy who doesn't like women to be too clingy. So long as he gives you a reasonable amount of his time and doesn't hang out with other girls, you need to decide if that is enough for you. If the time you get is not good then move on.
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