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writes:Helloo.. well this is a bit of an embarrassing question. Ive been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now and we have recently started sleeping together. I can make him "come" but I dont seem to myself..this is the embarrassing bit i dont know what im supposed to feel or if anything happens? Im even cringing at typing this but hopefully somebody can explain it to me. Im worried he knows nothing is happening and it will put a dampner on our relationship. Everything else is great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): Pleasure takesover and ripples through your body. You feel like you can take on the world.Experiment with yourself first.I started having orgasms from 16, by doing it myself, then during sex its easy
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 its completely normal that you havent come from him - it takes alot to make women orgasm from intercourse and some women never do! so dont worry, you have only started sleeping together. why not try and do it yourself? this will help you learn about what makes you feel good, and where etc..as its the g spot that he needs to target it is going to be difficult. try either him or you using your fingers during sex as this will give you clitoral stimulation too. and dont worry about wat it will feel like because it is a sensation like no other!! good luck xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): ok hun! have you never ever had an orgasm? have you never given yourself one? if not then i suggest experimenting with yourself and giving yourself one!
when i get an orgasm firstly you get an intense sensation all over your body--and it feels bloody fantastic! then the pleasure becomes more and more intense and your whole body tenses up and you may find yourself making noises without meaning to! then as the orgasm reaches its climaz--you lose control of your body and the feeling of pleasure just swamps you!! i tend to get very hot and out of breath! afterwards-you will feel quite sensitive down below!!
just to let you know that 1/3 of women dont orgasm during sex so your not alone!!
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (27 July 2007):
 hey huni xxx The reson you haveint come is most probably because most guys come with little incoruagement. it takes a while for a girl to come because for him it doenst matter wat hes doing inside you the vaginal wall is always hitting the spot where as for you its like darts, hit and miss. my boyfriend and i relised this and so once hes come he turns his attention to me and uses his fingers! an orgasm is reli intense so youd knw if you were haveing one. dnt feel silly for asking cos how eslse would you knw???!!!wen you orgasm u can even feel it in your eyes because its a reli strong sensation. xxx
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