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writes:The guy am with and I enjoy sex and we try a lot of different things and it is really good, but he wants me to be on top. I have no problem with this and I have tried, but I am doing something wrong. I feel like I don't have good rhythm, and he keeps slipping out. I want to be able to do this cause I know he really likes it. When I am on top he tells me it feels good but I can tell not as good as other postions cause he normaly doesn't say it feels good he moans. I am afraid that with me in that position I don't think he would fully get off. Also, when I am on top it doesn't feel as good as other positions to me, is there something I can do to make it feel better for me also? Reply to this Question
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reader, daglish  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 For caution's sake try as much as possible not to do things you are not comfortable with during sex. Sex is supposed to be the source of the greatest pleasure one benefits from love. As an act of love you should be considerate to your partner as well. However its very been widely proven that women easily climax while on top than in any other position. FACT! sO it has turned out to be more famous a position than man missionary because also men find it very exciting afterall for them, cuming is not a big problem in any position. However when you are having sex while on top of your man remmber that;
1) His penis is vulnerable and so you need to start very slowly and after sufficient stimulation. Becoz it should be fully erect for both of you to enjoy.
2)The other thing my girl usually does while she is on top is lean as backwards as backwards as possible. This way she looks romantic and i can penetrate her deeper at an increasing rate.
3)Finally when she feels like approaching orgasm, she leans forward till we are face to face and rocks me crazy. This way i find no other better sex position.
Hey, you too can have the same experience with your hubby
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 I can understand the thought that theres other better positions. But im only 5'3. Have short legs, i wonder if this is the reason? If you think about it.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): Yes try leaning back, and grinding, i find the sexier i feel, the more he likes it, by exagerating movements and curves, try rolling your belly, flicking your hair back and your head, someguys love that. Feel sexy, it will make it better for you. And i tend to keep his penis inside me and take my legs from astride him and have my feet either side of his head and have sex that way too.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 have you tried leaning back and putting you hands on his legs behind you? this usually increases penetration and he will stay in easier. another thing is wen u are on top dont go up and down try moving your hips and pelvis around and sliding up and down him this might also help with the problem of him falling out. have you tried it with him holding you and him doing the work?
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Well, as for the slipping out, I know how you feel!! It's unfortunate. Try spreading your legs out a bit farther, so that on the "up" beat, you don't go up so high. Less of a chance of him slipping out.
As for the rest of it, try leaning forward, you can drop kisses on his chest, or neck, or just bury your face if you really get carried away in the heat of the moment. This position, with your upper body forward, allows you to go 'forward and back' a little more than 'up and down' - it's easier on your legs, and gives you a little more g-spot and clit action, as well as stability so you can work on the rhythm.
And if he says it feels good, then keep it up! One of the reasons guys like it so much is because the view is great from there (lol), and they don't have to do a bit of the work.
Remember- just try to have fun!
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