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writes:o.k well see,i found out my boyfriend iz cheating on me with my bestfriend!!!!!how do i kno?becuz not only did my friend tell that she saw them kissing and hugging n the movies,but hiz friend told me the same thang 2!!!! i kno it's tru cuz they were n da same movie wit them,and were sitting together as a group!!!so when i ask both of them if it wuz tru they both lie about it!!!!!!!!!!so wat do i do???stay with the boy i've been dying 2 go out with and stay away from my ex bestfreind,orleave dem both behind?Note from moderator: Please could you try to not use text speak, this makes it easier for other to read and to respond to you.
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (27 July 2007):
I would leave him, because if he will cheat on you with your best friend, then he will keep on doing it, maybe with her, maybe with others. You will be hurt again and again. I would also find a new best friend, because this one doesn't care for you in the slightest.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Hi,if you have let this guy know that you have been dying to date him, that was a mistake because he probbly feels that he can do what he wants and you would still be there.
You need to ditch your bf because she really isn't your true friend. You can do the same for the guy but if you want to give him a second chance, it's up to you. Make sure that if you give him a second chance you set some boundaries so that you would not get hurt again.You should not be in a relationship if he is going to continue playing games with. You truly deserve someone better that would treat you right and appreciate your love.You really have to take the risk;either you leave him and deal with the betrayal or you give him a second chance. Make sure that he really wants a second chance and he is sincere.
Why dont you bring the people in front of your bf and your friend and have a confrontation, that way you would definately get some truth out.
Good luck hunn, mail me if you wana talk and let me know what has happened.
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