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writes:hi i'm having trouble with my wife, she doesnt live in the states she lives with my son currently 2thousand miles away, i saw a message on her cell phone from a guy friend of hers saying love you horney. and since then i have trouble trusting her, i've never doubted her feelings for me, and i've never felt like this untill i saw that message, what do youthink if u could plzz take the time.. i saw her couple of weeks ego, and she was her good old selfloving, wanting to cook for me and spend time with.. but i'm a guy and i know what messages like this mean, could u plzz plzz help me out, i've made her cry several times and shes sworn on her life and my sons life that she has nothing to hide from me, and how could it be that i wasnt trusting her!! I love her with all my heart and i dun wanna loose her because of my isecurities :(ty very muchlennerd Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): Of course she is cheating dont be deceived. But what do you expect? you allow her stay so far away, they say "body nor be firewood" do you understand that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): Confront her about it. This happened to me also. It's tough to imagine, but as guys we know when another guy is sending you wife sexual messages she's probably been on the cheat.good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007):
The fact that you're far away with little contact will work WONDERS to push a woman in the direction of another guy, whether she's the faithful type or not. She may not be playing around with an another guy, but I'd call it way over 50% likely.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 It's important to hear why she got the message. Then, you have to try and believe it's nothing or....? Who knows? Most of us don't say that to just anyone.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 People swear on peoples lives even when they are lying, i know, had it done to me & it was their own childs life they were swearing on.
If you have confronted her & are still having bad instincts, trust them.
C xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (27 July 2007):
 So it sounds like you confronted her about the phone message and I'm wondering what was her excuse for why a male friend would text her with a 'love you honey'? If you haven't confronted her, please do so. I'd love to hear her explanation, then perhaps I could give you better advise. My concern is this, you guys don't live together from the sounds of it, and I don't know how often you actually see each other. I suspect she gets lonely. I don't know what the dynamics are in your relationship, but I think it would help if you could reside in the same house. Long distance relationships rarely work out for very long. Someone almost always ends up cheating because they get lonely or feel neglected. A thriving relationship involves physical closeness. I hope you guys can figure out how to make this happen.
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