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writes:how can i tell if my crush might be interested in me?shes twelve if that might help on finding out i have some clues like befor summer break she just out of no were hugged me but when i gave her my email she never emailed me how do i know if she likes me?
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reader, Stanley Cup +, writes (29 July 2007):
Hey Chris, in regards to the body language, the most important thing to pay attention to is her smile. People smile at what they like. Just remember to smile at her and see if she smiles back.
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reader, chriskindofnervas +, writes (29 July 2007):
chriskindofnervas is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits no problem about the long message the longer it is the more better i am at reading her mind i also look up some body language and know a lot of more stuff that she may do if she likes me
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reader, Stanley Cup +, writes (28 July 2007):
Hey Chris, the bowling is exactly the type of group activity that I was suggesting. The fact that it is a league is even better, because that will give you several chances to see her. That means that you don't have to rush everything into one meeting, but that you can play it cool and give it some time.
I recommend that when you see her at the bowling league you don't rush over to her right away, because that may come off as kind of clingy. I know that you are going to want to go over to her right away and ask her how she's been doing and what she's been up to, but trust me on this, don't do it. When you get to the bowling alley, don't stare at her, but every now and then, look over at her. When you get some eye contact, or if you catch her looking over at you, walk on over to her and tell her that it's great to see her again and ask her how she's been doing/how was her summer/what did she do over the summer vacation. Because you're bowling, you won't have much time, so just talk to her for a minute or two, and then say that it was great seeing her again and then ask her for her email, so that you can keep in touch.
Now that you will have her email, you can email her a few times and get to know her a little better. Once you have exchanged messages a few times, you will have a better idea of how she feels about you. If you think that she feels about you the same way that you feel about her, then you can ask her to join you sometime when you are already planning on doing something. For example, you don't want to say "hey, do you want to go bowling with me sometime?" Instead say something like "I am going bowling this Saturday, and I'd really like for you to be there. Do you think that you can make it?" This lets her know that you are a busy guy with things to do, but that you are interested enough in her to want her to be there. If instead, you had asked her if she wanted to go bowling sometime, it makes you look like a bit of a loser, because you are waiting around for her. Anyway, I know that this has been a long message, but I hope it helps.
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reader, chriskindofnervas +, writes (28 July 2007):
chriskindofnervas is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno when i gave her my email she didnt give me hers i dont have her phone and its been months since i gave it to her and we will be bowling together soon in a leag
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reader, Stanley Cup +, writes (28 July 2007):
Hey Chris, the only way you can tell if she likes you is if you contact her. Just because she hasn't emailed you doesn't mean that she doesn't like you. It might be that she hasn't had a chance to get on the computer. Maybe she hasn't emailed you because she doesn't know what to say in the email. Have you tried emailing her? Do you have her telephone number? I suggest that you contact her and see if she'd like to do something together. I recommend that you go out in a group of friends, because you will feel more relaxed. If you are out in a group you won't have to worry about any uncomfortable silences. Also, if you are with a group, then if she doesn't feel the same as you do, you will be able to interact with other people and won't feel so awkward. Hope this helps.
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