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writes:This Boy who i realy like broke up with me a year ago and now to go out with me again. He broke my heart so bad but shall i get back together with him or not. I asked him if he would again but he answed no i've changed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Do not believe him..not even for a splitting second! You say he's hurt you twice before? I'm sure when he hurt you the first time, he said he would never do it again, right? That certainly didn't stop him from hurting you again! Ask yourself what's different about this time? It's a crazy world my dear and as horrible as this sounds, whereas there are people who hurt others because they truly can't help it(that doesn't mean it hurts less),there are those like this boy, who hurt others just because they can. They do it "for the hang of it!" Its sad, but it's true. Learn from the past, and take comfort in knowing that you did give him another chance and he blew it...HIS fault not yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): No dont take him back. You have no children with him, your not married to him, you dont need the hassle. There are pleanty more boys out there and you will now have more of an idea of what to look for in a potential boyfriend. Learn from your mistakes and move on dont let him have another opportunity of breaking your heart again, but let him see you happy and with other boys so he knows what he lost!
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reader, lovehate +, writes (1 August 2007):
 If you are sure you will not fall into the deep end and make yourself not too available, then yes sure if you really want to. But think about what your doing, will it actually be different? Has he really changed or does he just want to use you? BEWARE. Don't be vulnerable. Always be one step ahead of him until you are sure he truely has changed.
I hope this helped :-)
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reader, Michelley-ox +, writes (28 July 2007):
 do you think you can get over the fact that he broke your heart? if so them yea you should get back with him however. . .i dont actually believe that people can change or second chances. but then again a year is a long time and maybe he has changed slightly if you do intend on getting back with him be cautious as you dont want to get hurt again x
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (28 July 2007):
 ok no matter what a guy says he can't change, yer they might of grown up but thats it. the way i see it is if you want to give it a go but i know that i can't go back to a guy who really hurt me, it will always be at the back of my head what he did and it will bug me. in my opinion don't go back, but if u feel in ur heart that he has changed and u want to really make it work go for it the answer is up to u good luck
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