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writes:me and my girlfrien were together for two years and living together. Since she went to family togethershe met her cousins when she was little. My girlfriendtold me that she nobody else but him. I didn;t think any of it. A month past and she started to call'meless on my cell phone and I saw less of her until midnight. I thought to myself if she is not talkingto me, she is talking to somebody else. I GOT THEthe phone bill noticed that she had double the minuteson her cell phone, because she had been talking toher cousin Omar. Calls in the morning,when she wouldregualar call, and at night, constitenly of one month.When I confronted her, she turned red and claims, thatmy cousins and there;s nothing wrong with that. ThenI told her then would you hang with me to talk to him?She would answer me. from there they talked less.I but strongly belive that she would to him on her brothers cell phone. Anyways, her cousins invited her'to go and see him, and of cours I sais no.She end up breaking with me and left to go and see him, She claims that she was doing her cousins brother a favor and I been vary pissed off at her since. We started to talk less, less sex and less seeing each other. Recently she go invited to go again with brohter and sister to Atlanta, where Omar lives. My girlfriend invited me to go, but I declined,'because she knows I will not go, and invited me with the intentions that i will not go. I told her if you leave, leave my apartment and livewith your brother. Of course she choose to leave to see, cousins and moved some of stuff out of my apartment. my girl claims that if she gets invited again, that she will go. My girlfriend will not admittthat she likes her cousin Omar. She claims that she isbrother and does like him that way. I totally disagree.Its embarresing to talk to somebody about this and need some advice, to make sure that I am not crazy.can cousing fall in love with each other?Has my girlfriend shown the signs that she is infactuated/fallen for her cousins?She was always telling how that he had green eyes and blonde hair, when she saw him the first time at the part. We are now seperated because of him and because sheleft to see him and has an another excuse that it washis brother that wanted to go.she shows no remorse for leaving the apartment andwe talk even less now and see each other less now,'because of this stituation. She will never admitt of'liking her cousin. Are these sign that she is in lovewith a man that is married and cannot have?I think all of that talking on the phone hooked hersince they enjoy each others conversationplease help me with advise, so I can open up my eyes.from orlando
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Ok i will try and understand what you were saying. Its possible she has an infatuation with her cousin. Its not legal if it goes any further with full on cousins, but anything from second cousin onwards (if you are in the Uk) is legal. But unless you have concrete proof, why are you questioning her relationships with her family? Are you insecure normally? Because i dont believe unless there are moral, emotional or legal reasons, anyone should be 'kept' from their family? families are an amazing thing most of the time, unconditionally. Maybe she felt you were trying to control her? Tell her what she can and cant do? Who she can and cant speak to? Its not normal to tell a partner they 'cant' speak to or see someone, let alone family?If she doesnt have any wish to speak to you, i would leave her well alone. If she is willing to speak to you, then ask her. But dont put pressure on her to speak if she doesnt want to.All the bestC xxxxx
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