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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for over a year, our relationship is great but when we talk about our sex life i get shy. this is a bit of a problem because i would like us to try sumthing different altho i dont know what.can anyone help me? how do i tell him this ?
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reader, splendid_spiders  +, writes (27 July 2007):
It's normal for you to be shy, you're still young! I didn't truly open up when it came to sex until I was in my late twenties. But if you want to learn how to open up to him sexually, educate yourself on the topic of sex. You're probably shy because you're a little insecure ... that's normal for your age. So, go read some books on sex, talk to your friends about sex ... and yes, maybe watch some porn. And if you still feel too shy to talk about it with your man, use non-verbal techniques to show what you want. There is nothing wrong with body language and I believe most men prefer it over talking. It won't take him long to catch on! Good luck and have fun! Ps ... if you want more advice, explain to us what it is different that you want to try. Is it anal? Is it a new position?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 ok well the thing is you have been together for a year and you should be completely comfortably with him. sex is sex and everyone has it so dont feel shy to talk about it - you will both appreciate it and it will make your sex life so much better. the more you talk about sex with him the more comfortably you will feel with him and the better your sex will be!! honestly honey talk about it you shouldnt feel shy at all its normal!! email me if you want and i can give you more advice if you want xxx
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