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*RICK333
writes:My girlfriend has a fetish of another guy eating out her bush while I watch. She wants me to go down on her friend while she watches. I don't mind watching another guy going down on my girl but the question I have is should I let one of my friends do it or just have her pick a random guy that she meets and I approve of? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): Eddie, LOL!
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reader, LauraE  +, writes (27 July 2007):
This is so risky. It’s easy to think t would be fun, and then one of you gets jealous, and it all goes horribly wrong. One of you will think the other one is enjoying it “too much”, or that they fancy the other partner more, or that the other man or woman is better at it than you. You will start wondering if anything is going on behind your backs. The possibilities for paranoia and suspicion are endless. I agree with the other suggestions – keep it in your heads.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Leave it in your heads. You're opening up Pandora's box. (I hope that's not her name)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): Fantasies are often best left just as that. I suggest your mate gets some porn videos that perhaps show this kind of action going on - this may be enough to indulge in - and perhaps you could watch this together if you want to - but there is no need to carry it out yourself. I agree 100% with the other people who have replied. It will only do harm.
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reader, Steen +, writes (27 July 2007):
HI! I have been in this situation but the male had the fantasy of me with another man. Everyone is right! It will change your relationship for the worse! And if you get in a fight, be prepared to have everything you do thrown in your face!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Sweetie, I think this is a bad idea all the way around unless this relationship is just casual thing. And I know you're g/f is the one spurning these fantasies, but she may also be the one that freaks out, after she watches you go down on another woman. It happens all the time. The backlash of jealousy can come out of nowhere and it's very hard to un-do the images that get burned into your mind after a thing like this. Don't do it. Your relationship will never be the same. And also, I would question any woman who claims to be my g/f who wants to do these things. Intimacy should be a private, very special thing that only involves two people. Not three. Not four. Just say no. Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Ditto, ditto and ditto. DJ8433 has it right.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (27 July 2007):
 What kind of a man would allow his woman to be touched intimately by another man? If she's just a F--k buddy or a friend with benefits that's different. But if you think you love this woman and you have any ego whatsoever, you are not going to like yourself afterwards.
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