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writes:why do i always feel like i'm going to loose all the people around me ? i did loose previously alot of close frineds but the thing is i'm tired of this fear that eventually i'd be loosing everything in my life... so any ideas how to fix this ?for instance i feel as if me and my boyfriend will break up soon , i feel that all the people around me will leave me... Reply to this Question
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 I think you're feeling insecure.
You know, life puts us before changes all the time, and that means sometimes we lose touch with people we love. Many of us don't like this, either. We wish everyone we love stayed in the same place, with us, forever. It's hard to understand at first, but life can't be this way, it needs to be a series of changes.
All these people you've lost, you'll come across them eventually. Just you wait and see.
And then, if you let your fear of your boyfriend leaving you be known, he will. Just be confident and try to live one day at a time.
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