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I dont want to break up with my girl to date the other, but know it wont last in my current relationship!

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Question - (27 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I Have an amazing girlfriend and i love her. But before I started dating her i met another girl. I cant get her out of my mind and she is truly everything in a girl i could ever want. I never asked her out because she had a Boyfriend. But they broke up a little while ago and we both want to be together. I have no clue what to do. I dont want to blow off my girlfriend to be with this other girl but I also dont want to stay with a girl when i know the relationship wont last. Can anyone help me?

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (30 July 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntHmmm, well then the answer seems pretty obvious to me. Or is there something I'm missing?...If you're interested in this other girl, the one who used to have a b/f but doesn't now, I think you should ease out of your current relationship and see what develops between the two of you. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2007):

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I dont think it will last because we are always arguing and she lives somewhat far away, so it makes it difficult to see her all the time

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntWhy would you stay in a relationship that you already know isn't going to last? Just end it and go for the girl you want to be with.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007):

why don't you think the relationship will last?

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A female reader, Pussy Kat Doll Canada +, writes (27 July 2007):

well srry bout your situation dude someone's heart unfortnetly will get hert. Well i used to be the girl that you are not going out with... if you know the relationship is not going anywhere then you should break up with your girlfriend and go out with the other girl because you both feel the same way. And for the other girlz sake that your not dating take a chance on her and experiance someone knew!!:) good luck

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