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In a relationship, what do guys like and not like?

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Question - (27 July 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Please someone tell me, what do guys want out of a relationship? do they like to be kissed alot? do they sometimes just want to be left alone? how do they like their girl to act? and what do guys not like?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

If you dont talk to your man how will you know what he wants? I am 18 and my relationship is so wonderful. I have an amazing man that i can trust and talk too. He is everything including my BEST FRIEND. To know what your man really wants you have to talk to him and ask him questions. Believe me, your man will love answering this question. Knowing how to please each other is a very big part of your relationship and if you dont know what to do it can be stressfullllll!!!!!!!! Just talk and be honest and open. Thats what my Baby and i do all the time. It also brings you so much closer.

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A female reader, Butterflyfly United Kingdom +, writes (28 July 2007):

Butterflyfly agony auntdepends on the person.you can always bring this up subtly in a good humoured conversation to find out what makes the one you 've chosen tick, by 'confessing' your 'do's and 'do not's :).

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (27 July 2007):

Danielepew agony auntSweet thing said it all. Finding out what he wants could work in your advantage. He would see you're interested in making him happy.

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

Andy00 agony auntI will answer quite simply: It varies. No two people are the same after all.

I for one know of guys who have been in relationships and have seemed very quiet with their partners, and it used to confuse me, because when I was in a relationship, I never wanted to be away from my partner. I would kiss her quite frequently. She may have got sick of this eventually, but she always gave me the impression that she liked the attention, but then not all women do either. And that's exactly what I mean when I say it varies.

The best way to find out what certain guys like and don't like is through interaction; talking to them or doing things to them. This is what I suggest.

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (27 July 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntI'm not a guy, but I've had experience with enough of them, and I'd say it's all personal choice. There is no cookie-cutter, one-size fits all advise here. Some men like alot of affection and kissing, touching etc. Some do not. If you have a b/f and this is new territory for you, the just experiment. If he seems embarrassed or pulls away when you shower him with affection, back off or point blank ask him what he feels comfortable with. My general rule of thumb in a relationship, is to do what feels natural to me and if the guy seems turned off, then I adjust my behavior so he doesn't feel uncomfortable. Every guy is different. I hope this helps you out.

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