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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay im 14 years old and me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago. i lost my virginity to him. and now hes dating one of my best friends which is really hard all i ever do is cry over him. what is the best way for me to get over him?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 I like all the advice, but I'm more with the anonymous poster.
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reader, LISAXXXG  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 i know its hard hun losing your viginity to some one you thought was special is a hard thing to comprehend but boys mature so much slower than girls we act so much more grown up he is still a kid inside his head!! you can't go back on it now although i think maybe you should have waited soon you will meet some one else i suggest just hanging out with people be boys friend rarther than looking for a relationship and if you do enter in to a relationship its wise to wait untill your 16 as its illegl before that. keep your chin up go and have some fun (no sex fun) with your friends make new ones and stay away from relationships for a while hun xx
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reader, Sara Petra123 +, writes (27 July 2007):
Ok I know this is going to hard to read but this friend he's going out with isn't respecting your feelings at all. You really need to speak to her because the most important rule of dating is that you NEVER EVER date a friends ex. She is also not helping you get over him, because she is connected to him therfore means you are to because you're her friend. You need to let her know this, and tell her that you don't dat your friends ex . I hope this might help : )
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reader, lovesickpup +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Hi there,
it seems to me that this lad isnt really thinking about you i was in that situation about 2 years ago and yeh i occasionally think about him but then i think of how he hurt me and how the situation could of turned out no offence but he could have done what most ment do and carried on seeing you but also seeing your best friend its best that you have found out now what he is like because the next guy is just around the corner so be patient trust me soon he woill be a distant memory plus to make it abit easier dress up to the maxx next time you see him and dont give him the time of day just ignore him he will soon realise what a mistake hes made trust me
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): life has away of letting a person lean,dear you lost your virginty many lose thier life over man, you should get over him and move forward because you have a lot of years ahead of you to meet someone,because love hurts you grow every time and this will let you know what you want in a man at the end of the day,loving yourself is the best way to get over someone that dear to your heart. it clear this guy wanted you only for your virginty and you give him what he wanted, he knowns what he is doing and you are not the last one he will hurt. you have being getting a chance to move on take it and rememeber you only live once.
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