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writes: I'm 17 and there is a girl who I like, 2 years younger. My famly don't like her, and I personally used to hate her, and she like wise, yet the other day when I saw her, I just longed for her. We only talked for a minute but we had matured. I want to ask her out, only problem is I fear her rejection and she's not normally who I go for and I rarely get the chance to see her. Reply to this Question
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reader, myp  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 if ur nervous, flirt with her, make suggestive comments... haha not too suggestive, if she reciprocates, then ask her out if she says no then she says no, if u dont ask youll never have a chance...
plus if she doesnt flirt with you at all then u kno where u stand, and if she does reject u theres plenty of fish in the sea.
about your family, if they dont like her then those are they're personal feelings. if shes matured maybe theyll like her now that shes changed but if youre over youre issues with her then they should be supportive of your decision
best of luck
-Myesha
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reader, daglish  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Its never easy later on wise to just wake up one morning and ask a girl out after just second of jazz. You might alot about her but in the negative context like you have mantioned abt the family stuff. What you need to do now that u have actually claimed to have grown up is what mature people do;
1) Try to do whatever you can to access this potential jewel as much as you can.
2)If you succed in the above try to start a completely new line of vibe. That is never ever try to talk of things to do with your past family's attitude towards her. Lateron dont try to accuse her of previously not liking you even if all this might be true.
3)Do all you can in whichever way possible that there exists a real friend behind the old 'YOU" that she knew. all this is going to take time ,depending on how good you are at playing your game.
3) Now that you know what you want, never try look disappointed before her even when she irritates you somex.
4)Intimancy will just be inevitable at this stage there you will be on your way to your first DATE
Good luck awaits my hommie provided he is confident at all times
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Hey Huni i can see you like her but theres no need to rush itll be easier n less likly she'll reject you if you 1stly become friends keep havin those liddle chats see if she starts flirting with u thn go for it food luck :)
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (27 July 2007):
 You missed a good opportunity, next time you'll know. Think of a time you might run into her again. I don't mean stalk her. BE ready with what you are going to say. Practice in the mirror what she might say to you and visa versa. Do it a couple of times until you feel confident. When you see her, even if you forget everything you practiced, something will come to mind because you did practice the part about asking her out. Think of a place to go or something to do that she might like. Even if it's just to get an ice cream or go to a movie. Above all be confident. Women prefer a confident male over a weak male. Relax. What if she does say she can't, tell her maybe next time, but be sure to get her number. If she won't give it to you, then let it go. You wont turn into a pumpkin or die. It's good practice for you, then you will be that much more ready for the next girl you want to ask out. Enjoy yourself. If and when you end up having sex in your lifetime, practice safe sex and bring your own condom.
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