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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my girlfriend have been going out for nearly 6months and i love her but she seems to flirt with other guys online but not in person... i do trust her but she does it excessively and she constantly jokes about cheating on me with them, this makes me feel really uncomfortable and insecure and i have confronted her about it but she still does it despite of that... I really don’t know what to do about this and was hoping you guys could help
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 You're young and you don't need to be in a relationship like this, talk to her again and tell her how it makes you feel and tell her that if she can't or won't stop doing it then you will end it with her.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Have you asked her why she feels the need to validate herself through other men, on line or otherwise? Are you not enough for her? You've told her it bothers you, now you need to ask her point blank to end it or you're out of here. I think one thing leads to another and if she's doing it "on line" she'll do it real time eventually. Right now it seems like she's just building up her confidence by testing it out on line. It's a form of cheating to me. P.S. I'm wondering how you found out about this? Does she brag to you?.....At any rate, she needs to decide if she wants a "virtual" man or a real one. I wouldn't put up with it. Good luck.
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