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writes:i have two questions. first of all. this guy im starting to like. he keeps lookhng at we. we never talked to me. he has a gf. but she iritates him coz shes loud ,always yelling. he kisses her and then look at me. whats the chances of him liking me? and second question. is it cheating to like this guy. while i have a bf? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): Well, you have a bf-he has a gf. Therein is the answer to your first question? No, he doesn't like you, at least not enough to date you because...he's with her and not you, isn't he? So I suggest you use your head, think this out and make a clear decision to back off from this guy. If that isn't enough to convince you then ask yourself---why on earth would you want a guy who would kiss his gf and then look at you, to see your reaction? I mean, it's pretty obvious he's just simply ego driven. He knows you like him. He's enjoying the game. You are simply flattering him. A lot of people like this...self-involved flattery and ego get the best of them. I feel sorry for his gf. Plainly he 's playing with you and her. In answer to your next question? Is it cheating to like this guy because you have a bf? Well, what do you think? Would've your bf liked another girl while dating you...how would you feel about that? Not a great feelings is it? I think it's very wrong to date a guy while swooning and crushing over another man. It means your emotional heartfelt feelings are lying with someone else, while your is thinking ''he's the only one for you'. So in effect, I liken it to emotional cheating, yes. Come clean with your bf-tell him you like another guy and you both go your separate ways. Or stop this silly flirting with another guy right under the noses of both your dating partners. It's in real bad form. Get single and date available guys if you find you aren't committed enought to go it with your bf. As for the guy with the gf..forget about him, dear. What he's doing to her...he'll do to you, someday--if you were ever to get involved with him. Think, girl and discern who are the best people for your life. This guy isn't one of them
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