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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:i am 26 yrs old i have been with my husband going on 8 yrs and married barely 1 yr. i don't know what is going on, i know i love him but i am not happy at all. I wish i could say i was but i can't we have 3 young children (3, 4 , 5 yrs old). we spend no time together, and when we try he brings he friends or family along. There is no romance there, the only time he gets close is when well you know when. i feel so confused. i want ot leave but i can't. i don't want to leave and figure out that i want him back. He is stubburn and says if i leave thereis no turning back. so i feel scared to make a choice and then regret. what can i do, i need help i have been confused for weeks and can't stop crying . so i give up or stay help!!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Couples need to always schedule time to be ALONE, otherwise you drown in a sea of parenthood. Hire a babysitter, or ask someone reliable in the family to take the kids one night a week starting immediately, so the two of you can have time alone. This time can be spent going to a movie, out to dinner, or cooking a nice dinner at home where you can both relax, and talk, and be a couple again without the responsibilities and distractions of the little ones around. On your "date night" make it special. Dress up, put on perfume, do your hair, it'll help you both re-connect on an adult level and hopefully rekindle your love for each other. It will also help you appreciate your kids more when you get these little breaks from them now and then. I hope this helps you out.
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