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anonymous
writes:I'm Falling For My Bestfriend and i know she has fellings for me....Last friday we had a pillow fight (like normal) she was dead hyper and so was i she kept pushing me on top of her...I felt strange and she keeps telling me she loves me...I think im too young to have these fellings...What should i do about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): no ur not too young to have these feelings... i was about 16 (18 now) and my best friend (who is a girl) spent the night at my house and she kept gettin close to my face and tryin to kiss me... i kept moving my head and i dared her she wudnt kiss me.. i was wrong.. we ended up doing alot of other things that night and i was thinking... hmmm am i bi? i waited another year to figure out if it was really love i was feeling for her and i was right.. i am completely in love with her now and she has feelings for me too and we r trying to work things out.. although we r not dating.. she still my love.. and she knos that... we r both bisexual girls and we both enjoy each other wen she spends the night almost everyweekend........... my point is... just go for it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 July 2007): Thought i would say thnx 4 ur help...She's a bitch and i really was stupid too think i liked her...Well i guess it's back too guys (wow that was quick) thnx anyways *Panda Boo Hugz*
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reader, sxcbabiegal +, writes (27 July 2007):
 hunni my moto is ur never to young and your never too old don't worry about these feelings their completely normal so what if it's a girl to girl thing as long as your who you want to be thats all that matters tell your friend how you feel ask her why she said she loved you and if she means it hope everything goes ok keep us posted xxx lv jodie xx
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Your not too young at all, you start developing crushes at this stage, and believe me, ive been in this situation before with my best friend who was also a girl, i began to believe i was bi-sexual, theres nothing wrong with it at all, you go through this stage too, questioning your sexuality, i realised i wasnt bi-sexual though. But if you both genuinly like each other and feel the same, i'd say go for it!I hope it works out okay. :) Message me if you want to chat. xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): at this age, your body is maturing sexually and you will have feelings you've never felt before. with your hormones going all over the place, you may feel, at times, sexually attracted to your girl friends. it can be confusing, but everyone experiences this at some point or another.
realise that these feelings are a product of the changes going on in your body, not necessarily something determining your sexual orientation.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 hey chicken dont worry about it!! its a crush - boy or girl its normal! have you thought about any other girls in the same way or do you find your just attracted to her? if you like her then go for it! you think she likes you back and thats great! if you wanna talk further about this email me id be happy to talk to ya more about this! we've all had some sort of experience with our girlfriends so dont you be worrying about it! email me and we'll talk hun xxx
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reader, 88jane +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Your not too young to have these feelings sweetheart! you fancy your friend--it doesnt matter if it was a boy or girl people of your age are starting to get crushes! your entering into puberty when your hormones start to take control of your body and mind! this is a time when you will start to develop feelings for other people! just carry on as normal and if your friend does like you the same then great!! just keep enjoying yourself and dont worry about it!! i dont think there is anything you need or should do about it! just treat this the same as if you fancied a boy! the only thing you need to consider is if you tell your friend how you feel your friendship may be affected!
just keep enjoying your youth and having fun!!
email me if you need more help! without more info thats the best advice i can give!
xxxx
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