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*ravis
writes:First off I'm gay and I have a boyfriend that I love very much, he just met this guy that he works with and he told me that he liked him and he liked him back, and he said that it will stay a friendship and he recently started to hang out with him. I'm so hurt right now and I need help!! I told my boyfriend that it bugged me and he said that I can't control the people he hangs out with. GURRR!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Travis +, writes (28 July 2007):
Travis is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUPDATE!
so my boyfriend hung out with him for about three hours and i ended up telling him that it was ok and that i trusted him. and then that night i asked him what they did and all he said was i was thinking about you and that im sorry for not respecting your frrlings about this. so in turn it made him realise my feelings about this and it made me trust him because i know that my Boyfriend would not have anything more then just a friendship with him.
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reader, Travis +, writes (27 July 2007):
Travis is verified as being by the original poster of the questionone of my main questions is, are they going to get closer when they hang out because he said it will stay a friendship, and that im still his priority in life. and i can trust him just not his feeling for the other guy. is this wrong to feel this way? am i being controling? or is he not respecting my feelings at all...i dont know anymore.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (27 July 2007):
 Hey huni just give him a chance at being friends with this new lad the more you moan n moan at him the more likely you are to push him away frm u right into this other lads arms. you say he told you he likes him and he likes him back you need to find out in what way likes as in "fancys" if yes then you need to tell your boyfriend that its hard for you wen hes goin out with someone he fancys especially wen this lad "likes" him back say u dont mind them being friends n ask him if he understands where your coming from. if hes not willing to respect your feelings hes probably not worth it any way honey good luck :)
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