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*heuntoldfool
writes: HiI'm a guy, 19 years, in the last six months have been in a class for adult education to improve my maths. In my class is a girl (21 years) who I think is really cute, nice and intelligent.Today when we were at the school to fetch some papers for our Danish exam (essay), I read up the issue that we were going to write about: "What do you dream about?" She looks at her friend, pointing at me and says:"He dreams about me" I wanted to say something like "it's true", but I had no clue what to do and pretended to overhear it. I don't know if she meant anything by it... Maybe she dreams about me or perhaps my crush on her is just more obvious than I thought, or perhaps it was just meant as a joke ... Could use some help here as I am very shy and the course is only a few weeks from the end and we won't see each other as often. In short, I can't tell if she likes me or not, we're chatting well together and share many interests. I just can't figure out if she sees me more as a friend, or if she might want something more.I know it is cliché but, does she like me?!
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reader, Theuntoldfool +, writes (27 May 2010):
Theuntoldfool is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot guys and girls. I think I'm gonna ask her out or something next time i see her =D
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 May 2010):
Go for it. Ask her out to a Cafe nearby after class to play pool/back gammon or for brunch on a sunday :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (25 May 2010):
Yeah, you could turn this to your advantage. Joke or not, just tell her one day..."Hey, I dreamed about you going out with me this Friday at 7. Let's say we make it reality?"She was telling you she liked you when she said that you dream about her. ;)
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reader, TimmD +, writes (25 May 2010):
Girls have pretty good instincts about a guy liking her. There is a good chance she knows about your crush. And the fact that she knows AND said "He dreams about me.." is actually good.
I agree with eyeswideopen.... just go for it. You don't have to ask her to marry you or anything. Just ask her out for a cup of coffee or lunch. Just something small and informal. I'm willing to be she's going to say yes.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 May 2010):
Take a deep breath and ask her out for some coffee after your next class. Nothing ventured nothing gained.
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