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writes:I like to hear guys thoughts and from girls who have had personal experience.My bf and I have been together for quite a long time now (9 months) and are experimenting with hand-jobs.I let him give me one for the first time a few days ago. We spent so much time on me, that we didn't get the chance to give him the same attention. I felt bad because he'd been waiting all week. He was chilled with it though.We also IM each other and make up "stories" together, but never about anything more than what we've already done.The same day I finally let his fingers go down there, he shared a fantasy of his with me, that I quite liked. The school uniform every guy wants on a girl.Sounds like fun to meHe's going away this weekend.My questions1) Should I make his fantasy a reality?2) Can a girl be too sexual? (I am quite intelligent and we have great conversations all the time)3) How physical is too physical in a girl?4) Should I make future fantasies a reality as long as I am comfortable with them?5) Should I do it before he goes away or should I wait until after he comes back? Is it too soon to do it now: does it come off in the wrong way?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice, I really appreciate it!
@Soon567: Thank you so much! It's really great to hear your opinion. I don't think I am trashy, we've been together for a long time and we love, trust and respect each other. Its not one sided :) I have a good reputation and because he respects me and our relationship, he has a closed mouth :) We aren't humping or having sex. And we won't. Something we both agree on. And whatever we do do - I (and We) will always be safe. Thank you for that concern. Also: thank you for the reality check: its good to get a reminder about what he REALLY wants from time to time. Thank you :)
@Talking helps: Will be waiting 'til he comes back, if I decide to make his dreams come true
@You Wish: Thanks for your opinion. Really Great! You gave me a slightly different perspective on it all. Feeling really good. Thanks
@q1605: Seriously? I honestly don't know. How about you decide and let me know. LOL. :D Thanks - you made me laugh.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Q1605 - only if he starts quacking like Donald Duck. LOL! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's 2 years older than me
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Just curious, how old is your boyfriend?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (24 May 2010):
Creativity is FUN! Just be safe and make sure there's nothing being done that one of you aren't comfortable. Otherwise, as long as it's not illegal, the sky is the limit. Let your imagination run wild. Study up on new techniques and making old ones better. Seriously, a girl can NOT be too sexual. When two people who love each other devote time and energy into each other's pleasure and ecstasy, that's a whole new level of happiness. Enjoy it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): 1-3) Depends on the girl 4) Yes obviously 5) Wait till he comes back
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