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If I'm not sure she's gay, should I still ask her out?

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Question - (12 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, a girl I was certain I really loved had to move far away. This was back in August and I had been having trouble moving on, but now I feel I can try dating again. There's now this girl at school that I'd like to ask out, but I don't know how to go about it. It can be a little awkward to ask someone out when you don't know for sure if they're gay too, but I'm also really bad at flirting or anything. Anyone have any suggestions to help me with this?

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntI dont know if asking a friend would be a good idea because if she is not they will ask her that you asked, i would suggest that you try talking to her on a friendly level to get to know her, maybe ask her what celebrities she thinks are pretty or something and that will give you an idea of her sexuality. I hope this helps, =]

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2010):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntI dont know if asking a friend would be a good idea because if she is not they will ask her that you asked, i would suggest that you try talking to her on a friendly level to get to know her, maybe ask her what celebrities she thinks are pretty or something and that will give you an idea of her sexuality. I hope this helps, =]

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 May 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntI'd find out first if she dates females before I stick my neck out. Does she have a close friend you could ask? Could save some embarrassment, you know?

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