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writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. but we have known and been together since i was 18 years old and that was over 15 years ago. he tells me he loves me, and he can't get enough of me, but he won't commit. he calls me for booty and that's pretty much it. we don't go on dates and he doesn't want children and he don't want to get married. should i just leave him and move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): Hey,Well guys are tricky. It may seem like that ya'll are dating because he calls you his girlfriend but in reality you need to accept the fact to move on. He is only using you and nothing else. Never going on dates? Not a good boyfriend. He tells you the things you want to hear to keep you around. It's not fair to you to stay around there and i know it may be hard because you've known each other for so long but it's time to move on. It may not be an overnight process unless you move out of the state but reject him next time he invites you over. Instead say "how about we go out to a nice place to eat instead?" and once he makes an excuse, or brings you to a dump, that's more proof.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Have you been without your sense of smell for a long time? I would have smelled that coffee about 14 years ago.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (26 May 2010):
You should have moved on ages ago. You're just there for sex, that's it. The time has come for you to end it and find a man who will commit, because this one won't without a doubt.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (26 May 2010):
 If you don't go on dates and he only calls you for sex, how is he your boyfriend? He sounds like a friend with benefits you've had for 15 years. Don't you think it's time to find someone who's interested in a REAL relationship? Sheesh!
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