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30-35,
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writes:Hey all. What does it mean wen the girl who said we should 6e friends says I get on her nerves. She doesn't knw why she says. I jux try 2 talk with her because she doesn't really talk 6acc. Jux reacts to what I say. I don't try to purposely piss her off 6ut I always manage 2. She's not ready for a serious relationship so I feel as if I'm just a bother to her. But she still text me everyday even if just for a few min. Should I give up, because I feel foolish. I have strong feelings for her and I dnt wanna lose her because of something silly like this what. Should i do?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Is "6acc" kind of like baby's got back?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 May 2010):
 She doesn't talk "6acc"??? What does that mean?
It sounds as though you like her but frankly, she's not interested. It sounds to me as though she is merely putting up with you but has no desire for anything further.
I think if you are serious about this girl, you need to raise your standing in her eyes. Right now, you're just the guy who kinda bugs her from time to time. That's not dateable material.
So how do you make yourself seem more attractive? One of the shallow truths about women is that they are more likely to give a guy a chance if he is pursued by other women or is perceived as "hot" by her girlfriends. Raise your profile with her friends, get them thinking that you are the cutest, most dateable and wonderful guy around, and that might help change her mind about you. I'm not suggesting you become a player and yank these girls around but you want to be perceived as desirable and "hot."
Good hygiene, clean nails, smell good, dress decently, good haircut, show off your body's assets. Become a lot less "available" to her. Become mysteriously busy with "dates" and don't answer her the instant she texts you. Create some distance between you and an air of being busy and happy in a good way.
You don't have anything to lose at this point, so you might as well give it a try!
Good luck.
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